It's the extra socializing, hanging out with residents, stopping by the hospital to visit his best friend. I would like to ask for some advice from the spouses of Docs or Docs to be on how to handle the house responsibilities. You are expecting him to be like your exes and you want him to be the one to chase you.
I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects.
I am engaged to marry a surgeon next fall.