You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself.
Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either.
They are grown now and serving their country but luckily they still need Mom and Dad sometimes!.
Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry sexyfuckgirls girl.