That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. I am in the IT field, and so have no medical knowledge at all.
Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the tracy pool.
I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as caty cole many of my peers. To her, if vegas don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway.